Am moving out and catching cold feet . help?

am moving out of my parents house for the first time. i am a manager at a theater and a college student. i am moving in with a highschool friend and her sister in the city to enjoy being young and city life. It a month till the move in date and am scared. I gotta pay for rent a bills now. my parent dont thing i should move they say why pay rent when you can live for free. are they right. my friend just died and its taking a real toll on me i dont know what to do anymore. should i just move and start all fresh and new or be scard and stay home.

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I would say make the move, and explain to you how to budget your work, studies, and expenses.

But you are moving out to room with 2 girls. I would not suggest that is a good idea. It will not be as much fun as you think. However if it were with 2 guys, that would make sense.

When girls get together they interact much differently than when guys get together. You will always feel like a 3rd wheel.

You will end up feeling like you did when you were by your dad, lonely. You had no companionship at your dads, and you won't have any real companionship sharing an apartment with 2 girls. They giggle allot, and will also share their experiences differently with each other. So maybe you can find some guys that would want to move out to the city, and share an apartment.

Meanwhile while your home, start chipping in with the family expenses. Food, rent, telephone, electric, gas. This will prepare you for the time when you will eventually move, and you will know how to budget yourself in the future. You will then move with confidence, and not be frightened.

Have a good one.

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You have to leave the nest sometime and learn to be self-proficient. You can't depend on your parents forever. Sometimes the hardest route is the best one to take because it makes you stronger.
Try being on your own for a while. It's a great experience. I know that leaving home for the first time can be scary, but you'll be glad you did it!
that is natural but why move with others and girls at that i thought you want to study.
Always face your fears head on. Move out, learn to balance your budget and to live within your means. Just think every other week or so you can ask your folks if they wanna have a movie night. You'll be fine hun, its a step we all have to take, at least you're not doing it with a baby!
if you are that scared, you aren't ready...

what I suggest you do is stay at your parents, but ask them to help you get used to budgeting and paying for things that you will eventually need to when it is time to move forward.

Ask them if you can pay rent %26amp; utilities etc to them out of what you earn, and they can deposit it into a bank account for you to have as a security nest egg for when you are ready to be out on your own.

Getting used to having bills and knowing you are setting yourself up for your future will help you a long way in being ready for the independent first step.
It's very normal to be scared when you leave your parents' house, but it has to happen sometime. Remember, it's not like you're leaving their lives. You can call them anytime, and they'll call you, too, believe me. Focus on all the positve things that are about to happen to you. You'll be independent in every way, and you can even call your parents one day and say something like, "Let's have lunch, it'll be my treat." That is a wonderful feeling!
the best thing you should do is to move out... i'm sorry for your friend but you should try to move on and be happy and let people in ur life.. sometimes you need to forget the past and don't live with it..... deal with the present and try to be happy.. hope all the best 4 u.. good luck!!