Her's a question for girls... Just see what you think please?

I took a girl out on saturday, Met her on myspace, very beautiful both inside and out. I had told her to just come out as friends, she doesnt have a car so i told her i would drive as well. So I met her at a local resturaunt(one of my favorites) now she is very shy and quiet it seems. So we ate dinner and then went to a what was supposed to be "rowdy" art show, like low brow, tattoo art, kind of. it sucked because hardly anyone was there, so we went down to the bar and had a couple jack and cokes. We chose an earlier time to see our movie GRINDHOUSE, and went over to the theater to see it. very good movie, we didn't touch eachother the whole time, but this was our first "date" So after it was over I suggested we go to a local asian parlour where they have games and things of that nature and bubble tea, my favorite and hers :) She said she wanted to make it an early night, but it was 1:30 in the morning before we left :) I took her home, we didn't kiss or anything like that.

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oh my god... i had a very similar date.lol. for a second there, it was my crush writing this.lol.

well, shy girls are not too different from shy guys. im sure she is worrying a lot about the next date, the previous date, and she may seem distant to you right now, but at home she probly is not and imagines what to wear for the next date.

you said it was your first date, so give her a break man... give it a little time. maybe another date or two. if she really likes you, which i think she does, cuz she said she wants to hang out again, she will open up. dont worry....

Her's a question for girls... Just see what you think please?opera ticket opera theateryou're welcome.. thats why im "urmentor" ;-) ask again anytime..like after ur 2nd date and let me know how it went. :-) Report It


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She must be a shy girl...try to tell jokes... that will make her smile and make her feel much more comfortable on your next date. :P it works!
Sounds like u both had a great time and don't worry she is just a shy girl!Definately go out again and have more fun!
She did because she wouldn't have stayed out so long if she didn't like you. If she really wasn't interested she would probably have left after dinner, that's what I would have done. It's definitely looking good. I think the girl was probably very nervous since she hadn't met you before, doesn't sound like there's any problems.
continue dating so she'll be more comfortable with you...take it step by step...don't rush to physical contacts...
She may just be a quite person, and there is nothing wrong with that. She said she had a good time. If i were you i would definitely ask her out again:)
get some balls - geez how many places were you going to go to ? she was hanging around for you to make a move but after six hours (not sure of amount of time ) of you just being the perfect gentlemen she got tired and took off for home - learn from this buddy for next time -If you attempt a kiss and you are rejected she doesnt like you (you are off the hook for anything else and you wont be wondering if she does ) . If you attempt the kiss and kiss - you are in - . I am sorry to say you may have blown it here - if you dont try the next date to kiss her you are destined to be just a friend for life - remember if YOU are interested in a girl always try the kiss on the first date - you will know where you statnd
I personally would give her some room /space and try not to wreck a good thing.

If it was meant to be she will get back in touch with you, if not then she was a lady be respecting the date she had with you as it was good but that's it.

Don't push just for the fact it was your first date with her and all more reason not to be pushy.

Nothing you did or didn't do, she is maybe taking her time for whatever reason, you need to respect that.

You seem like you did everything right as a gentlemen would have.

Other thing is some people really are shy and can only relate to people more openly on a computer.

Just my thought on this mater.

You had a great time, so just hold on to that first date with her, and be a friend until asked different from her along.

Good luck .
that sounds like cute:)well i think she was a bit shy as it was ur first date try to talk abt things u used to talk online this will remind her the good time and the things that led u to go for a date am sure she will go out with u again and this time be more open and freindly tell her wt u like in her she would be flattered...all the best
Well to be on the honest and real side here (which you can guarantee I will always be) Today is a different era where you can actually screen your dates by meeting them via the internet instead of actually "blind dating" or any other method of meeting someone new. I am happy that you met a nice girl, that happens to be beautiful at the same time. And you have something in common. You both like bubble tea and myspace. Being that it was a first date don't put too much credit into it. She may just be shy and once she feels comfortable opening up you will see that she is to you standards or liking. And this also gives you a chance to learn things about her that would ordinarily be over looked if things moved too fast. She said in your follow-up email that she enjoyed herself and would like to go out with you again. So there you have it. Oh yeah , in addition to sending her an email, (because you didn't want to be let down over the phone) give her a call and talk to her. She may be the old fashioned type of young lady that wants to be pursued. Be real with her and always be honest and remember that she could be your mother or sister, or auntie or some other dear female relative, meaning treat her with respect. In the end even if it doesn't turn into a "Fairytale Marriage" at least you walk away with a new tea buddy and perhaps even a friend.
she is most likely thinking the same thing, she is probably shy and afraid of what you think. i am more than shore that she will go back out with you because to me she really wants to but is nervous.